K, so first things first. My brothers are doing okay. It remains to be seen if either of them have learned anything and will change what they need to change but the wake-up call was delivered and received at least for the rest of us. Mathew's uncle is also well, all things considered.
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See, not all bad, just need to put things in perspective.
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See, not all bad, just need to put things in perspective.